2006-06-30 The Price of Children
No I'm not in the children selling business! I just thought I would put this in to encourage those who are seesawing about whether they can afford to have children or not. Plus this is for those who have had the thought, 'I wonder how much I can get for these brats? Actually they can have them for free!' Lol , we know they are joking. I think most parents have some days like that but we also know that most parents and I would hope 99.9% of parents wouldn't give up their children for any amount of money!
The Price of Children
This is just too good not to pass on to all. Something absolutely positive for a change. I have repeatedly seen the breakdown of the cost of raising a child, but this is the first time I have seen the rewards listed this way. It's nice.
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk about price shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into:
* $8,896.66 a year, * $741.38 a month, or * $171.08 a week. * That's a mere $24.24 a day! * Just over a dollar an hour.
Still, you might think the best financial advice is don't have children if you want to be "rich." Actually, it is just the opposite.
What do you get for your $160,140.00?
* Naming rights. First, middle, and last! * Glimpses of God every day. * Giggles under the covers every night. * More love than your heart can hold. * Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs. * Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies. * A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate. * A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites. * Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up. You get to:
* finger-paint, * carve pumpkins, * play hide-and-seek, * catch lightning bugs, and * never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to:
* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, * watch Saturday morning cartoons, * go to Disney movies, and * wish on stars. * You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.
For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for:
* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, * taking the training wheels off a bike, * removing a splinter, * filling a wading pool, * coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat in history to witness the:
* first step, * first word, * first bra, * first date, and * first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great grandchildren. You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match. In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them
without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!
Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren!!!!!!!
It's the best investment you'll make ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I hope you enjoyed the read. Patricia Downing
2006-06-28 'Chicken Soup' For Your Health
I like to give information if I feel it may help people. It is good to have knowledge as long as a person uses it in the proper way, but that is different topic. I have put this article on my Quikonnex site as well. I borrowed a book from the library called Chicken Soup. Now this isn't the "Chicken Soup For the Soul" books. This is a book about the remedies for ailments that our grandparents used. Now don't go saying 'aw phish' 'Old Wives Tales' because that will get me on to another topic about how we have been brain washed into thinking the only good remedy is drugs. Well that is not true and as far as I am concerned it mostly involves money. But that is also another topic. Most people have heard the time honored comfort food for a cold is chicken soup, so I imagine that is the basis of this book's title, 'Chicken Soup' It was written by Joan Wilen and Lydia Wilen. It is dedicated to their Mom and Dad, this is what they wrote; "..to the loving memory of Lillian and Jack Wilen-- Mom, who made the best chicken soup in the whole wide world! and Dad, who insisted we wear camphor squares around our necks! Speaking of camphor squares I'll start with Colds. As it states in the book; If you're out there with a red, runny nose, chest congestion and that achy flu feeling,.... keep reading for some simple cold-helping hints. The first round of ammunition for fighting the cold war is Chicken Soup (Jewish penicillin). According to 'Medical World News, July 10, 1978, the director of medical services at Mount Sinai Medical Center in Miami Beach, Dr. Marvin A. Sackner, proved that chicken soup can help cure a cold. Using a bronchofiberscope and cineroentgenograms and measurements of mucus velocity, Dr. Sackner tested the effectiveness of hot chicken soup and hot and cold water. Cold water lowered nasal clearance. Hot water improved it, but it was nothing compared to the improvement after hot chicken soup. Then, to negate the effects of the steam from the hot water and hot chicken soup, the fluids were sipped through straws from covered containers. Hot water had very little effect this way. The hot chicken soup still had some benefit. Here is what I imagine is their mother's recipe for chicken soup: 4-5 pounds of chicken parts. (if you can get farm chickens you will have more flavor plus more nutrition and hopefully no GMO, and that is another topic! Actually, everything home grown would be better.) 3 carrots, scrubbed or peeled,, cut in thirds 2 parsnips, scrubbed, cut in thirds 2 celery stalks with leaves, cut in thirds 1 large onion cut in half 1 green pepper, cut in half and cleaned out 2 sprigs dill (optional) or 1/2 teaspoonful of dill seeds 4 parsley sprigs 4 cloves of garlic, crushed 1 to 2 teaspoonsful of salt 10 cups of water Add the chicken, carrots, parsnips, celery, onion, green pepper, water and salt to a big pot. Wrap the dill or dill seeds, parsley and garlic in cheesecloth and add that to the pot. Bring it to a boil, clean off the scum from the top of the soup, cover and simmer for 21/2 to 3 hours. If, after 3 hours the soup is lacking the flavor you want, add a few chicken boullion cubes to taste. Remove the chicken and the vegetables. Refrigerate the soup overnight. Next day, before heating the soup, remove the top layer of fat, skimming the surface with a spoon. Add the vegetables, heat and -- Eat! before it gets cold! Another remedy: In the USSR, (when it was the USSR), garlic is known as the ' Russian penicillin. It has been reported that colds have actually disappeared within hours - a day at most - after taking garlic. Keep a peeled clove of garlic in the mouth, {stay away from those you love :o) }, between the cheek and teeth. do not chew it. Occassionally, release a little garlic juice by digging the teeth into the clove. Replace the clove every 3 or 4 hours. Number three: Combine a crushed clove of garlic with 1/2 teaspoonful of cayenne pepper, the juice of 1 lemon, 1,000 mg of Vitamin C (buy it powdered or grind it yourself), and 1 teaspoonful of honey. Dose: Take mixture 3 times a day at mealtime. There are more remedies, if you want more, email me and I will send them to you. It is time we took back our lives by being responsible for our own health instead of relying on money hungry drug companies to heal us. Why use a product that can give you all kinds of side effects instead of using natural products that you probably have in your home. I'm not saying all drugs are bad for you, I'm just saying why put synthetic chemicals into your body if a natural one will work as well. Also for those who have to watch their pennies, it will cost you a lot less. I love that advertisement which sings; 'hands in my pocket' , I would just as soon it was my hands in my pocket, not some money and power hungry uncaring company's. Patricia Downing coffeemarm@excite.com Quikonnex
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