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Whine Served With Plenty of Cheese PleaseHave you ever met one of these people whose 15 seconds of fame in their lifetime, will end up being unable to tell you what their favorite 'whine' was?
For every second they come up with something good to say, something of value you can really latch on to, up comes the proverbial glass of 'whine' because someone did not think they were the latest and greatest since swiss cheese.
The funny part is they are quite judgmental in what others can say or do. Picking apart and damning for lack of allowed controversy or opinion is their war cry - followed by the proverbial "whine" "you did me wrong - why are you picking on me? Please somebody ,make them stop"
I am blessed with a close relative who acts in the same manner. They have a tongue for the antagonistic "I" that rules their lives but not the shoulders for the responses their attitude creates in turn. Damn they are smart as a whip! But when that egocentric "I" bursts forth in full bloom, they cannot understand how or why they are so misunderstood - so victimized - in their eyes. Their Law of Attraction is ' notice me. See how smart I am?' Then comes the controversy they demand is their right, but cannot deal with when pointed their way. Someone disagrees with what they have to say and whammo! Cheese with that Whine anyone?In reality, the best advice may be to ignore these people. You would think eventually they will blow up and disappear or at least change their attitudes. Nice wishful thinking. When "I" demands the whole hearted support of "we" and does not get it, then the circle of "poor me" grows exponentially. There is not much left to hope for other than the fact that one day they may wake up and realize they need to deal with their own accountability for actions that bring them to this place they are so unhappy about. Fran Klasinski - warriorlady Mentoring you with common sense support [at] kwalitytraffic4newbies [dot]com http://www.blogestates.com/blog/How2-4Newbies http://www.blogestates.com/blog/KwalityKorner http://gjwforum.com/invboard/ |
| Comment posted by gofer at 2008-12-26 09:54:40 Wow! Right on Fran! Its sad that so many people think everyone is picking on them when the should go on with their life and what they are trying to accomplish. Yes, we all have moments we\'ve been hurt but the true sign of a successful person is to learn from that failure and go on with something else - whine and lashing out at others is not the way to success! |
| Comment posted by gofer at 2008-12-26 13:24:17 Fran - Diane said to tell you to keep on stirring that pot of cheese dip! There will always be plenty of whine to go with it! |